The Mentor (or What They Remember)

I am working with a young man who I have mentored since his first day as a volunteer at my old suburban post. I have tried to teach him the right way to do the job – to be thorough, to be considerate, to be empathetic, to be professional. We have done many calls together over the years, and he has made great strides from his first tentative days. I work with him now occasionally in the city.

I come in to work this morning and am glad to see he is my partner. They post us in a location straddling two towns. We stop at a doughnut shop for breakfast. And then we are dispatched to a cardiac arrest at a nursing home in one of the towns. My partner fires up the lights and sirens. Depending on who your partner is a cardiac arrest call can cause a little bit of anxiety. I have no anxiety this morning. I can depend on my partner. He is the EMT is in the old saying. Paramedics Save Lives, EMTs save paramedics. I am very proud of him. I flatter myself that he will carry on in my fine tradition long after I have left the streets.

We are not three minutes into our response when we get shut down as a closer unit is now available. My partner shuts off the lights, and then turns suddenly into the Dunkin’ Doughnuts just ahead.

“What you didn’t get enough to eat?” I ask.

“No,” he says. “Isn’t that what you taught me?”

“What?”

“Whenever you get canceled from a lights and sirens response, pull into the next doughnut shop you see so people will think you were using lights and sirens just to get doughnuts.”

“I said that?”

“Yeah, you said it makes you laugh so hard you nearly pee yourself every time you do it.”

“You sure that was me?”

“Yes, you said the thought that someone thought you were using lights and sirens to get doughnuts cracked you up. You would innocently say to the person if they followed you into the doughnut shop, “Oh, no sir, we were on our way to a cardiac arrest and we just got canceled. I’m just trying to grab a quick bite to eat before the next call. We would never use lights and sirens to get doughnuts.”

I have to admit it does sound vaguely familiar. I suppose I might have taught him that.

“You said you need humor in this job to keep you sane. You’ve got to have your laughs, you said.”

“Okay, well,” I say. “Well done then.”

What the young remember.

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    Christy
    Paramedic Students
    Enjoyed reading this. I am an EMT-B who is in Paramedic school and I have been on the receiving end of working with a few medics who seemed to have forgotten that they were just like me once upon a time. And there are medics who I have cherished my time working with as they…
    2015-06-19 23:10:13
    karl
    Paramedic Students
    Thank you for your openness. I am a paramedic who works full time in a busy ER and rides with my volunteer squad in my hometown. It is a study in proficiency evaluation to observe the amount of respect and/or validity the receiving RN gives the EMT/paramedic who is giving her report on their pt.…
    2015-06-19 06:34:13
    Jim
    Paramedic Students
    I retired from EMS after 25 plus years. Although I was never a Paramedic, I was for the last few years an EMT-I. I remember the feelings that I had near the end of my road time. Tired and grumpy all the time from working 2 jobs and putting in usually 77 plus hours a…
    2015-06-19 03:53:22
    Michael
    Paramedic Students
    Good read. I appreciate the frankness of the author in relating his attitude towards his partners. I was a paramedic for seven years, and I found myself being the guy you described more than once. It's easy to forget that we were all new once I guess.
    2015-06-18 19:09:14
    Dennis Dudley
    Paramedic Students
    I did read the book, and it gave me more respect for paramedics than I once had. The book gave me an idea of all the training they have to go through. The book made me focus on being a better EMT-B. I will pick up the book and re-read it again every so often…
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